2025: The Year Everyone Calls Hell,  And the Year That Changed Me Forever

Whenever people talk about 2025, there’s usually a pause first. A sigh. A shake of the head.
Then come the words: “What a hell of a year.”

And I get it. Truly, I do.
Because society loves the disaster reel. The breakdowns. The moments where everything fell apart. Trauma gets attention. Crisis gets clicks. If I told you how fantastically I was doing all year, most people would yawn and scroll on. BORING.

People want the pain. The chaos. The struggle.

Yes, 2025 hurt. Deeply.

In June, I lost my sister.
And in the very same week, I nearly lost my mother too.

At the exact time my sister’s funeral was taking place, my mom was undergoing her angiogram and angioplasty. One life being honoured. Another being fought for. In the same breath. In the same hour.

There are moments in life where time doesn’t heal, it marks. That week marked me forever.

By the grace of God, my mom is still here. Healing. Laughing. Sharing our space. And every single day with her now feels like borrowed time, the sacred kind.

So no, I won’t pretend 2025 was easy.
But here’s what nobody talks about enough: pain and progress can exist in the same year.

And when I look back honestly, not through grief alone, but through truth, 2025 was also a year of extraordinary wins.

I worked with the most incredible clients. Clients who trusted me. Who invited me into their lives, their fears, their breakdowns and breakthroughs. Together, we created absolute magic. The kind that gives you goosebumps. The kind that reminds you why you do this work in the first place.

I met inspiring, brilliant humans through networking, connections that stretched me, challenged me, and reminded me that I am not meant to do this alone.

I learned. Oh, did I learn.
I became a digital creator. I built funnels and landing pages. I tackled social media marketing head-on (sometimes with confidence, sometimes with caffeine and courage). I stepped way outside my comfort zone, pulled on my big-girl panties, and hosted online and in-person workshops, webinars, D-Talks, and created workbooks from scratch.

And yes, we talked about the things people avoid.
Gender-Based Violence.
The silence. The shame. The stories that live in the shadows.

My personal development? Through the roof.
Lead conversion. Manifestation. Visualisation. Communication. Burnout. Anxiety. Let Them. The 5 Second Rule. The reading list was long, and the transformation even longer.

And when I pause and really look back…
When I compare the Anna from a year ago, the nervous wreck, the woman with no confidence, the one who believed she was worthless, to the Anna standing here now…

All I can say is thank you.

Thank you to the situations that forced me to choose myself.
Thank you to the people who showed me exactly what I would no longer tolerate.
Thank you to the moments that broke me just enough to rebuild me stronger.

Because today, I get to witness transformation up close. I get to see eyes light up again. I get to watch confidence return. I get to see people stand taller, speak clearer, and finally, FINALLY, set boundaries without guilt.

That is a privilege. And I don’t take it lightly.

So my blogs are changing.
From here on, I’m inviting you into my 2025 journey, the highs and the lows. The grief and the growth. The mess and the miracles.

2025 was the Year of the Snake.
The year of shedding skin.
Of closing chapters.
Of saying goodbye to people, patterns, and versions of yourself that no longer served your highest good.

All that shedding was necessary, because space had to be made.

2026 is the Year of the Fire Horse.
Movement. Momentum. New beginnings. Bold action.

So darling… buckle up.
We are in for one heck of an exciting ride.

Happy New Year to all of you.
And thank you for being here.